Each
decade gives rise to a new social cause. In the past fifty years, America has seen
movements emerge for seniors, women, gays, racial minorities, and people with
disabilities.
While societys first
reaction to a new cause usually involves disbelief and resistance, eventually a place is
made at the table of power for the newcomer.
Whether it is collective
bargaining by unions, legal advocacy in court, political maneuvering in legislatures, or
economic deliberations in corporate board rooms, government and corporate leaders have
been forced to listen to those who were previously ignored. That is because each new group
has managed to elbow its way to the microphone.
But what about single people?
Dont they deserve a place at the table too?
More than 80 million unmarried
adults live in the United States. In most large cities unmarried adults are now the majority.
However, because single people
are a silent majority, they have made easy targets for social, legal, and economic
discrimination.
Presidential and congressional
candidates are talking past unmarried voters. When deals are struck in collective
bargaining, unions forget that a large percent of their members are single.
Some 21 states violate the
privacy rights of single people with criminal laws prohibiting private sexual conduct
between consenting adults.
Federal law does not outlaw marital status
discrimination. In fact, federal law penalizes unmarried Americans by taxing employee
benefits for their domestic partners and by |
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taking
up to 60% of the estate of unmarried adults when they die. Married people can escape this
huge tax bite.
All states prohibit
discrimination on the basis of race and religion and sex, but only 22 states forbid
marital status discrimination.
Many cities give domestic
partner health benefits to their workers. But some cities limit them to same-sex couples,
forcing heterosexual partners to marry in order to get equal benefits.
Some judges disrespect
unmarried couples by referring to them as "meretricious," an old legal term that
pertains to prostitution.
Lawmakers or judges in 37
states stigmatize children born to unmarried parents by labeling them as
"bastards" or "illegitimate children."
It appears that single people
today are where seniors were in the 1950s unorganized, silent, and ignored as a
group. For seniors, after the American Association of Retired Persons (AARP) was formed,
the picture began to change. AARP is now the largest organization in the nation with 30
million members. When AARP calls, politicians and corporate executives listen.
But arent there
thousands of singles groups in the country? Yes, but they are limited to dating,
social, and recreational activities. There has been no educational and political advocacy
for singles rights.
That is why the American
Association for Single People has been created. AASP will serve as a collective voice for
millions of unmarried Americans so their needs are considered when important policy
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