Friday, October 17, 2003
Unmarried America calls on singles to stand up and be heard
A story published today by the Washington Blade reports that Unmarried America, a singles' advocacy group, cited that unmarried Americans tend to pay higher taxes and receive fewer employee and government benefits than their married counterparts, despite the fact that they head 49.4 percent of the nation’s households.
At a Capitol Hill briefing last month, Thomas Coleman, the group’s executive director, said unmarried households are “actual majorities” in 13 states, 132 congressional districts, and more than 300 cities.
“With the United States on the verge of becoming an unmarried majority nation in terms of living arrangements, it is time for elected officials to take a crash course on equal rights,” he said. “It’s time for Congress to define marital status discrimination as an unacceptable form of behavior.”
Coleman said he is sympathetic to efforts by gay rights groups to seek legalization of same-sex civil marriage. But he said he is also concerned that gay groups may not be paying enough attention to it's single constituents.
Singles, regardless of sexual orientation, are often denied “equal pay” compensation packages available to same-sex couples through employee domestic partner plans, according to Coleman. Singles work the same hours and perform the same duties as heterosexual married co-workers and “coupled” co-workers, he said. Yet the married workers and workers with partners often are eligible for thousands of dollars worth of benefits in spousal and domestic partner programs that are unavailable to the single workers.
“The ideal benefit plan would be a ‘cafeteria’ plan, where singles and coupled people get the full, equal benefits,” he said.
Officials with Unmarried America said research they conducted uncovered the following inequities faced by single Americans:
Craig Howell, former president of the D.C. Gay & Lesbian Activists Alliance, said GLAA has advocated on behalf of gay singles since the group was founded in the early 1970s, but has found that few rank and file singles are interested in such issues.
“Very few single people identify as single,” Howell said. “They view themselves as either planning to marry or as widows or widowers.” Howell said singles don’t seem to mind losing out on the type of benefits and privileges that Unmarried America is advocating for.
“I believe in their cause,” Howell said. “But there is a fundamental problem — a lack of commitment on the part of single people.”