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Wednesday, October 30, 2002
Divorce court proceedings exacerbates children’s feelings
A story published today by the Independent reports that according to a study conducted by The Joseph Rowntree Foundation, disputes between divorcing parents over contact with the children are usually exacerbated when solicitors go to court. The study says applications for court orders, when judges specify who sees the children and when, "fuel conflict rather than resolve it". Researchers from the University of East Anglia interviewed parents and children from 61 families about their separation or divorce. Parents from 27 families, where the child-contact arrangements were working and there was a strong element of commitment among the adults, all came to voluntary agreements without legal intervention. The children from these families reported largely positive experiences, although some found it hard when one parent moved in with a new partner. But parents from 25 families were in dispute over contact. In some cases, the warring adults refused to communicate and caused distress to their children by using them as go-betweens, the study says. Of those who sought help through the legal system, none reported a positive outcome, and the authors conclude that lawyers, or judges, are rarely able to improve matters.
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